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Wednesday, October 30, 2019

Concerning Halloween...

So... If you're a Catholic (or really any more rooted Christian), you've probably, at least once, run into the controversy of celebrating Halloween. You may only vaguely remember it and what it's about, or you may be so thoroughly sick of it at this point that you ignore that very existence of Halloween. Either way, it's worth another look. Why? Because I believe that there are too many "you're wrong, I'm right," approaches to the discussion (not meaning, of course, that there isn't a solid truth to the matter, but, rather, that people tend to talk over each other for whatever side of the debate they're on, and very rarely try to even understand the other opinion).

For those who don't remember as well, the debate mostly parts into two paths - no, you should not celebrate Halloween (or if you should, do not acknowledge it as Halloween, but merely an early All Saint's Day) because, you know, demonic influence and such; yes, you should absolutely celebrate Halloween (even if detached from All Saint's/Soul's Day) and it's all in good fun and there's nothing harmful about dressing up as human nightmares and pleasuring in darkness. Well. If you're on one side, I apologize for the bluntness, but, in all honesty, I cannot stand either argument a lick. They're both wrong.

Let's tackle the easier one first. If you're a traditional Christian, you're probably already looking at the latter description above and thinking "Eh, duh! - of course there's something wrong with dressing up as human nightmares and pleasuring in darkness - what is wrong with this world?!". You are right. But I have definitely met people who think otherwise. Because the line is so fine between celebrating harmless and harmful Halloween, many people tend to think that, as long as it's not serious, anything goes. Sure, you can have your silly costumes. Sure, you can put up your little cartoon ghost picture. Sure, you can go and tp houses at night. Sure, you can rope up a bloody, misshapen, raggedy doll on our tree outside so that it looks like it's hanging. Ahem. You get the point; it gets out of hand fast.

There is (as I will demonstrate later) absolutely nothing wrong with dressing up or having cartoon figures around the house during Halloween. Both, in fact, are at their root very Christian traditions. What's wrong is making a celebration of all things dark, ugly, and macabre. If you find putting fake bloody fingerprints on your window fun, then you've got a problem. Because we don't understand the difference between mocking and celebrating evil, we often stray towards the latter, patronizing nightmares, fictional mass-murderers, and demons. We can't just say, "you know, some things about Halloween are harmless, so that must mean I can celebrate everything about Halloween!". It just doesn't work that way.


Now. If you're in the other camp, you might already be disagreeing with me that there are some harmless things about Halloween. Well, disagree with major Vatican exorcist, Fr. Vincent Lampert:

"Ultimately I don't think there's anything wrong with the kids putting on a costume, dressing up as a cowboy or Cinderella, and going through the neighborhood and asking for candy; that's all good clean fun."

Fr. Lampert does not in any fashion mean that there is nothing wrong with the current celebration of Halloween; in fact, his point he leads up to in this statement is that it's not cowboys or Cinderella that are walking through the neighborhoods these days; look around Halloween night, and see if you don't find witches, serial killers, and bloody ghosts any way you look. Is that good clean fun? I don't know about you, but Fr. Lampert (and I) would say no. 

In truth, it is actually the kinship with evil that is accomplished which is the true crime oft committed on Halloween: we watch scary, unhealthily gruesome movies, we, in all seriousness, try to dress up as the most grotesque of figures, and we play games invoking a demonic theme (or even, directly, the demonic). Not only this, but, even those of us who merely engage in harmless, cartoonified revelry forget the point of Halloween - God. Halloween is a mockery of evil, a day to triumph, for we know that many have smitten the devil and gotten to Heaven, and many yet may. If we cannot keep in mind the purpose of a celebration, then that celebration becomes mere gluttony. If we're eating candy and dressing up and all such things without even a thought of why we're doing it, then we've just become blind pigs, eating without need for survival, and reveling without joy.

For ages, Christians have celebrated Halloween - we've celebrated it longer than the seculars, and we've celebrated it (despite common belief) longer than the pagans (the pagans did not celebrate All Hallow's Eve, a day for thoughts of Heaven, but, rather like today's common celebrations, merely celebrated a liberation of and communication with evil spirits on a similar date, which, by the bye, they did at the end of every month, and not specifically October). The reasons to not celebrate Halloween are similar to those who might advocate the end of Christmas celebration:
  • Bad people, and, in fact, most people now celebrate it wrongly.
  • It's become so secularized.
  • There was a pagan holiday vaguely associated with its date.
  • It's an occasion for evil influence. (Every day with an occult-curious, atheistic, or badly faith-formed person is an occasion for evil influence!)
  • Not only God, but morality in general has disappeared from it. 
  • Nobody goes to Mass that day anymore.
  • And other similarly related reasons of its religious lacking.
Just because a holiday (holy-day) has become abused, we do not have to boycott it. In fact, I would say that is all the more reason to celebrate it - if people are celebrating it wrongly, then let us do it justice. Use the occasion to gain graces available that day, and make spiritual amends for the wrong done by the rest of the world. 

In fact, in addition to condemning the mainstream materialist and occult celebrations of Halloween, the Vatican-endorsed International Association of Exorcists in 2014 encouraged celebrating what they called "Holy-ween" - a vigil with prayer and remembrance of Our Lord's death and Resurrection, as well as a celebration of the saints.

I absolutely love this idea. Whoever thought this up is a genius. My toddler sister saw it and immediately exclaimed "It's a pumpkin Mama Mary - so pretty!"

If there is a harmless Halloween and a spiritual Halloween, then, I believe, we should be celebrating it. If your kid wants to dress up as a superhero, a princess, or, better yet, a saint, let them, and even encourage them! As a fairly recent Catholic article suggested, we should use the occasion to teach children about Halloween, its true meaning, and its opposite, not pretend it doesn't exist. Because Satan has no influence unless we give it to him, we've got to reclaim the holiday as Christian - don't let the seculars take a Christian holiday, and certainly don't let the demonically-inclined do so! Halloween will only get better if we're actually making it what it's supposed to be.

That's it for me. Your thoughts? Agree? Disagree? Anything to add or comment on? Do you celebrate Halloween? Or, more importantly, how do you celebrate Halloween? Are you getting frustrated with the number of slasher villains running around your neighborhood on Halloween? Or perhaps are you (lucky dog) preparing to go to an All Hallow's Eve Mass or saint-oriented costume party? 

6 comments:

  1. This is so good Belle. I agree, the way Halloween is celebrated today is often super disturbing. With every passing year I lose tolerance for the creepy decorations and bloody costumes. *shudders* As you eloquently put it, if you think putting bloody fingerprints on your window is fun, you've got a problem. (What especially bothers me is the "HELP ME" signs on house doors...when you're driving through a poorer neighborhood with a higher crime rate, especially, the creepiness just strikes too close to home.)

    But I ALSO believe that we should celebrate Halloween because its very name points to the saints, and in a world as full of evil as this one, we've got to fight for good clean fun whenever we can get it. The All Saint's Day party is a particularly lovely tradition; I think my little siblings are going to one a little later! And THOSE JACK-O-LANTERNS. *heart eyes*

    Thank you for a wonderfully encouraging post, my dear! I needed it, lol.

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    1. It really is - it's ridiculous. To me, it's right up there with people wanting to watch slasher movies - even for the sake of a stimulating scare, why would you want to watch/celebrate other human beings' suffering?!

      Absolutely - I've heard way too many people say "You know, too many occultists and atheists celebrate Halloween - I'm gonna just *not* celebrate it."
      Sweet! Well, have fun with it!
      Yes - aren't they gorgeous?!

      No problem - I'm glad you enjoyed it!

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  2. Huh, very interesting post. Since I'm not catholic, I don't think there's any real good way for me to celebrate Halloween, and I don't really have a desire to do so ;p. But I like hearing your perspective!

    MB: keturahskorner.blogspot.com
    PB: thegirlwhodoesntexist.com

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    1. Thanks. Yeah, since it's a very saint-centered holiday, I guess it's mostly a Catholic thing. Thanks for stopping by, though - I'm glad you enjoyed it anyways!

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  3. J+M+J
    Good post, to be honest my family has never really celebrated Halloween, dressing up for a Swing Dance being the fullest extent of it (along with carving pumpkins once or twice)... so this post was quite insightful, thanks!
    To be honest, seeing as we live in such a culture of death, it makes perfect sense why they should make such a big to-do about seemingly a celebration of death and evil (though as you said, that's not what it's meant to be), its so sad, and it makes me so angry towards and at once pitiful for them....
    And that is the neatest pumpkin idea ever! I've done a cross before, but never something that complex... that's such a good idea!
    (Sorry for commenting late, I read the post but didn't make myself make the time to comment, mea culpa!)

    The Doorman.

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    1. That's kinda sad - I guess one can't really force one's family at gunpoint to celebrate Halloween, though, haha. :P
      I agree wholeheartedly. It's a holiday of life, but becomes one of death because our culture sees only its own fallen nature in everything. It can definitely be angering, but, like many cases, most people don't know any better (because this culture has robbed them of a proper sense of what is a good idea and what is not, especially where their souls are concerned).
      Isn't it? I nearly died (figuratively) of aesthetic bliss when I saw it...
      (No problem! I have not been too good a commenter lately either...)

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